Saturday, 7 June 2014

The Final Look

Tonight was the charity ball and I managed to stay for a few hours.  Unfortunately I'm unwell due to sinuses & hay fever (ah the joys lol) however, this did not stop me from getting all dressed up for a few hours of fun and freedom :)

So as you know I was trying out new make up and a brand new look for me!! The hair did not work out at all.

Well ladies and gentlemen here is the final look






The lovely Caroline from nomorefrizzyhairdays.blogspot.co.uk made some amazing edits which I am going to share below.  She is rather talented don't you think




Friday, 6 June 2014

makeup update


So a couple of days ago I told you that I was going to attempt eyeliner for the first time. I finally got round to it and this is the outcome.

not a bad attempt 


Today I added a couple of new additions to my collection



Collection Pressed Powder 17g Ivory 18


Work The Colour Smokey Eye Palette Smokey 2


When I have used these I will upload the pictures :)





Wednesday, 4 June 2014

Hormone imbalance and anxiety

Hello everyone.

For the last 2 years I have had issues with my time of the month. I wont go into every symptom as I am sure the men reading this may get a bit squeamish lol.

I get dizzy, feel sick, very tired, moody, appetite increases and other symptoms I wont mention.

Every couple of months I get a break from it. I have been to my doctor many times, I was sent for a smear test and was told if it came back clear, which it did, I would be referred for more tests. This made me so so happy. I went back to that GP who referred me for the smear and he said "oh no no I am no referring you. This is coming from your anxiety" I was so angry, frustrated and upset.  My mum, who came with me, was stunned.

I have been to A&£ with pains and everything and they have written to my doctor recommending I be referred but I am still waiting.

Me being me I keep going back trying to push for a referral but they always say the same "it's your anxiety"

I know anxiety can increase around the time of the month due to hormones but this is the first time it has ever happened to me.

When my problems first started I was no having issues with anxiety at all so I know what they are saying is not true not that they listen.

So I decided to do a little research of my own and I have two different possibilities: PMS or Menopause. Yes I know menopause my be far fetched for a 33 year old but it is still a possibility and 95% of my symptoms point that way. I know there is some sort of hormone imbalance but the doctors deny it.

I am going back on Friday and I am going to refuse until I get referred.

Determined to get the answers I need.

Tuesday, 3 June 2014

attempting something new

Many people who read this may think "seriously you can't do that?" well not yet I can't.
You wondering what I am on about? Applying eyeliner!!

To me it's hard, just cannot do it and have never really attempted it since I had an epic fail lol.

The time has come to try again. I have a charity ball on Saturday and I want to look the part.

One other thing I am going to try is styling my hair without anyone's help.

I know this is not the usual thing for me to post but I am trying new things which will help boost my confidence and think we should all try something new that we are afraid of. Why not?



The hairstyle I will attempt

The eyeliner I am going to use. L'Oreal Super liner pen

Friday, 30 May 2014

Thumbs Up For Stephen Sutton



Stephen Sutton sadly passed away recently after a battle with cancer .Instead of feeling sorry for himself, Stephen wanted to raise £10,000 for Teenage Cancer Trust but that total has now exceeded £4 million 

There is still time to donate money.

What Stephen done is simply amazing.

May he rest in peace

  -

Saturday, 24 May 2014

Are you aged 18-25 then we need you!

A friend of mines is conducting a survey as part of her studies. Please see below for more information.


"Please help me with my Sociology Research! 
I'm looking at the attitudes of young people aged 18 - 25 on the topic of suicide. Therefore, if you have a spare few mins, please could you complete my questionnaire? 
Thanks! xxx"



Thank you in advance for you cooperation xx

Friday, 23 May 2014

guest post -The Richmond Fellowship Scotland



Generally when people are anxious we feel fearful and tense, this can also manifest as physical symptoms such as heart palpitations, sickness, shaking or tremors, headaches, sweating and much more.

These physical symptoms are caused in part by the brain sending lots of messages down the nerves to various parts of the body making your heart, lungs and other parts of your body work faster.

Anxiety is normal in stressful situations and can be helpful, when we feel threatened or in danger or even in anticipation of an exam or competition the burst of adrenaline is our bodies response to the situation getting us ready to respond, this is more commonly known as our “fight or flight response”

So when do our levels of anxiety become a problem? Anxiety is abnormal when it is out of proportion to the situation, when the stressful situation has gone and the feelings remain or if the stress is minor and appears for no apparent reason.

The training we deliver is called WRAP (Wellness Recovery Action Planning).  While it was originally developed by people who had been dealing with severe and enduring mental health illness, it is now widely recognised as a tool for dealing with any aspect of life be that family or work stress, anxiety, a life changing event, bullying, drug or alcohol issues, weight management - in fact just about anything.

WRAP is based on 5 key recovery concepts,

1.       Hope-that people can and do recover and go on to lead fulfilling lives

2.       Personal Responsibility- What can I do for myself to take control be the driver in my own recovery.

3.       Education- what do I know about myself that can enable me to respond better to situations and what more can I learn

4.       Self Advocacy- with this knowledge who do I need to talk to, what do I need to tell others and how can I speak up for myself

5.       Support- who or where can I get the support I need to help me move forward and take control of things in my life.

People go on to develop a wellness toolbox which is the resources we all have in order to keep our lives on an even keel, when you are unwell or not coping well it’s easy to forget the things we need to do to keep ourselves well, this acts as a reminder.

After doing this people then develop a WRAP plan which is a evidence based format that works really well for people in developing action plans to deal with feelings and circumstances in their lives.

I have worked with a few people who live with high levels of anxiety and they have said that after doing WRAP it enabled them to gain a better insight into themselves to recognise what triggers certain feelings and emotions and in turn develop action plans and strategies to help counteract these feelings. WRAP is NOT a cure, it is a way of life - it’s simple and effective and gives people a sense of control that often is lost when dealing with any form of challenge in our lives.

Roz Anderson (Team Manager in West Fife) is only one of four Advanced Level Facilitators in Wellness Recovery Action Planning (WRAP) operating within Scotland.

Uniquely Roz is the only Advanced Level Practitioner working within a Community Care organisation or Mental Health organisation in Scotland. This profiles The Richmond Fellowship Scotland’s expertise within recovery. The Richmond Fellowship Scotland supports WRAP by being able to deploy some 25 fully trained WRAP facilitators throughout its services in Scotland.

To find out more about The Richmond Fellowship Scotland, please visit our website: www.trfs.org.uk

To fund out more about WRAP please visit www.mentalhealthrecovery..com


I would like to say a massive thank you to the staff at The Richmond Fellowship Scotland for their wonderful guest post. I would also like to thank them for the wonderful work that they do.