The 15th October is recognised worldwide as
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. My husband and I added our candle to
the global wave of light, remembering our baby girl Grace who we lost to a
congenital heart defect.
Last week was about commemorating those who were taken too
soon. This week, I’d like to talk about the steps we can take to prevent some
of those deaths. Specifically, how we can prevent deaths caused by one of the
most common birth defects – congenital heart defects (CHD).
Heart defects affect 1 out of every 125 babies, making them
the most common cause of birth defect related deaths in the UK. Shockingly, only
1 in 3 babies affected by CHD have their condition detected during pregnancy.
Early detection of CHD saves lives. That’s an undeniable
fact. However, at present, the 2 out of 3 babies whose heart defects are not
detected during pregnancy have to take their chances.
I am very proud to volunteer for a wonderful charity called
Tiny Tickers, which aims is to improve the detection of CHD during pregnancy
and give heart babies a better start in life. Tiny Tickers’ mission is entirely
achievable and their methods work.
At present, Tiny Tickers are training sonographers to be
better equipped to spot heart defects at the 20 week scan. Statistics show that
the training works – in the regions where it has already been carried out there
are significantly higher detection rates of CHD. Tiny Tickers is a small
charity with huge ambitions – to train sonographers all over the UK so that
every baby with CHD has the best start in life. But they are not quite there –
yet.
With this in mind, there are two very important steps you
can take to ensure that, if your baby does have CHD, it is detected and treated
as soon as possible:
1 Give Your 20 Week Scan the Big Tick:
Tiny Tickers have created a Big Tick card, which you can
take along with you to your 20 week scan. It contains questions you can ask
your sonographer to enable you to confidently discuss your baby’s heart health
together. The Big Tick Card is completely free and can be ordered from visiting
the Big Tick website here . It only takes
a few seconds to order and doing so means that you will be well prepared with
the questions you need to ask about how your baby’s heart is developing.
In the vast majority of cases, babies’ hearts are perfectly
healthy. But if there is a problem, spotting it at the 20 week scan will give
him or her the support and medical care they need straight away. This means a
better chance of survival.
Think Heart:
During my time as a volunteer with Tiny Tickers, I have
heard many stories from new parents whose instinct told them that something was
seriously wrong with their baby but who were dismissed by health professionals.
For example, Grace Brown had voiced her concerns over daughter Honey’s health
many times before her heart problem was finally picked up. By the time Honey
arrived at hospital she had already gone into heart failure. Luckily, her story
has a happy ending (you can read it here).
Part of Tiny Tickers’ work includes spreading a very
important awareness message called Think Heart. If a baby is not thriving and
does not seem to have an infection, jaundice or any other common cause, parents
should ask a health professional to check the following 5 signs of a heart
problem:
For more information on recognising the signs of CHD, please
visit the Think Heart
web page.
My daughter, Grace, had a heart defect called Ebstein’s Anomaly,
which was detected at my 20 week
scan. In most cases, early detection of CHD gives babies a better chance of
survival. Unfortunately Grace’s heart defect was so serious that, even with the
most expert medical care, she didn’t make it. But, early detection meant that
she received the best treatment available. At least when I look back now, I know
that everything possible was done for her.
Without the eagle-eye of the
sonographer at my 20 week scan, it is highly likely that we would never have
met Grace alive. She would almost certainly have been stillborn if my pregnancy
had continued unassisted. Instead, we had a precious few hours with her before
she passed away. Those memories mean the world to us.
Tiny Tickers receives no government funding and is entirely
reliant on the generous help of supporters to carry on with their life saving
work. Regular gifts from their Heart Champions allow them to plan for the
future and train more sonographers.
£5 SENDS A NEW DIAGNOSIS PACK WITH SUPPORT AND
INFORMATION TO TWO FAMILIES WHO HAVE JUST FOUND OUT THEIR BABY HAS A HEART
DEFECT.
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£10 A MONTH TO TRAIN ONE SONOGRAPHER ANNUALLY WHO WILL
BE BETTER ABLE TO DETECT CHD IN THE 300 SCANS THEY CONDUCT EVERY YEAR.
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£25 CAN SEND VITAL DETECTION INFORMATION TO 40 BABY
CLINICS AND GP SURGERIES TO RAISE AWARENESS OF CHD AND THE IMPORTANCE OF
EARLY DETECTION.
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1 in 3 babies with CHD are discharged from hospital with no
one knowing about their life-threatening conditions. Tiny Tickers needs as much
help as possible to change this frightening statistic.
If you would like to become a Heart Champion and help Tiny
Tickers continue their vital work assisting heart babies before birth, please
click here to find out
more.
Please remember these two positive actions you can take to
be aware of your baby’s heart health. By sharing these tips with as many fellow
parents as possible and assisting Tiny Tickers to achieve their aims, we can
all play our part in giving heart babies the best start in life.
Written by Aimee
Foster, 12th October 2015
My heart goes out to you for your loss but thank you for writing this post and raising awareness of practical things that parents can actually do to help themselves in a situation that could feel helpless. The Big Tick card is a great idea.
ReplyDeleteShe is such a strong woman and I think the big tick card is wonderful, I would never thought to ask questions at my 20 week scan x
DeleteI'm so sorry for your loss (Grace), life can be so cruel, why do these things happen? I admire your strength in writing this post after what you have been through, but must thank you for sharing. Take care.
ReplyDeleteLife is very cruel at time. :( x
DeleteSuch a good cause to support. Sorry to hear about Grace Aimee.
ReplyDeleteThey are wonderful cause, such amazing work they do
DeleteI'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteYou are doing amazing work volunteering for this group and spreading the word. I have a friend due her 20 week scan soon so I'm going to tell her about it x
I think asking those questions will help so many babies. x
DeleteSo sorry to read this, your work is going to raise valuable awareness. xx
ReplyDeleteI shared this amazing strong woman's story as I wanted to help her spread the word about the incredible charity and what they do x
DeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like this charity is doing fantastic work to raise awareness of this issue.
ReplyDeleteTheir work is incredible x
DeleteMy heart goes out to you both for your loss of Grace but have such admiration for your bringing awareness x
ReplyDeleteShe is such a wonderful, strong woman x
DeleteI really feel for everyone who has lost a child and applaud you for making changes and raising awareness
ReplyDeleteShe is an amazing woman x
DeleteAngela, I didn't know you lost a baby too, I am very sorry to read this! I wish you all the best with the awareness campaign!xx
ReplyDeleteSorry, I should have put at the start of the post that it's a guest post. I was only too happy to share to help others x
DeleteI am so sorry to hear about Grace but what a great charity to support
ReplyDeleteThey are an incredible charity x
DeleteWhat an amazing woman. CHD in babies is diagnosed and handled so badly. I know as one of my twins had open heart surgery at 9 weeks. It was an awful, awful experience that took me years to get over and taught me loads with regard to trusting my instincts. Without a doubt she would not be here now if we hadn't stood our ground
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness sending you massive hugs. I am glad she got the help she needed xx
DeleteWhat an amazing charity and such a sad story to read :(
ReplyDeleteThey are an incredible charity xx
DeleteSo sorry to hear about Grace but what an amazing initiative - so important to raise awareness.
ReplyDeleteThe work they do is amazing x
DeleteI'm so sorry for your loss and commend you on helping to raise awareness.
ReplyDeleteSuch a strong lady and a worthy cause
A fantastic charity x
Deletesorry for your loss, great that you are doing a good thing for a great cause.
ReplyDeleteshe is a strong wonderful woman x
DeleteSo sorry to hear of your loss.
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post, I think its a great cause. I for one will be telling my friend about the big tick.
Such a strong woman and wonderful for helping to raise awareness x
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